My life in sex: ‘Over time, sex became something I could speak about’
The survivor who refuses to be defined by traumaMy life in sex: ‘Over time, sex became something I could speak about’Like many people, I endured neglect and sexual abuse in childhood. Now, as I approach my mid-30s, I can say, joyously, that I have an amazing sex life. Our sex life is varied and encompasses deep intimacy, tenderness, kink and, most of all, choice. I am the author of my own sexual life. • Each week, a reader tells us about their sex life.